Jealousy is about real or imagined fears
Fear of abandonment,
Fear of loss of love,
Fear of being dishonored in the relationship,
Fear of being shamed in the community,
Unresolved issues from past relationships,
Poor self esteem,
Cover or mask for things from the past that you haven't healed yet,
Vindictive or a desire for revenge that is misguided or misdirected toward someone else
When jealous feelings come up,
it's usually because we're afraid that we won't get our needs of one kind or another met.
It's been our experience that when jealousy comes up, somewhere within us, we are crying out for help....
Jealousy in romance is like salt in food. A little can enhance the savor, but too much can spoil the pleasure and, under certain circumstances, can be life-threatening
posted @ 1:46 PM |